My Goals


Social- & mental health - MAIN PROJECT

Whether we want to admit it or not, the truth is that social and mental health is bad in the fetish community!

In just november and december 2023, i lost 4 good fetish friends when they committed suicide.

Can I just prevent 1 by focusing on this, the goal is achieved.
I can't fix the whole world and every life, but as a mister for the entire fetish community, it's my duty to do what I can.



A visible person

A visible person is someone who is always there for advice and guidance. If you are in trouble with your fetish, gear etc. If you need advice on where to buy your gear, advice on problems with your gear, or are you simply afraid to show yourself in gear and so on.

No problem is too small - none too big.

And with my extensive voluntary work and support from all of you, I am well equipped to help individuals as well as other communities with advice, help etc.

 

NB. Being a visible person is not the same as responding to all sexual requests!


Appreciate the volunteers work

Without volunteers our community cannot exist.
We must appreciate them and their work, even if we have been refused a cheeky date with one of the helpers.

Giving a little gives so much back, and this is the way we need to strengthen our community and attract new ones.

In my view, being Mister is not about getting as much self-promotion as possible, but about being a front runner - a person everyone can see themselves in, and I am happy to help in the process of lifting events and strengthening the voluntary work



Same rules

When you travel into the US there are different rules from the EU when you travel by airplane.

maybe you're just traveling for a weekend or an event and don't need a suitcase but just hand luggage.

 

I discovered a problem when my friend from Netherlands, Momo who lives in London shared his horrifying story on Instagram, and have been thinking about him ever since.

He had to hand in his necklace at an airport because the rules are interpreted differently.

I had him explain the experience in a video you can see here on the page.

 

I will work to ensure that there are clear rules so you know what you can follow when you travel with your gear in your hand luggage.

And exactly when I have studied law at university, this work will be a joy for me.


These are just some of the points. In addition, I also wish that more Mr. Rubber events, or just rubber events in general.

I also wish that some companies might think about whether it is wise to sponsor large events if it is not necessary, and instead divide their sponsorships into smaller potions for several small organisations, e.g. Dutch Rubber Men, Spain Rubber men, Chicago Rubber club etc.